When beans grow on trees

Gardens and gardening have been an integral part of my childhood. My dad is a passionate gardener with a special love for roses. I watched as he busied himself budding and grafting. When the soil of our new garden wasn’t good enough mom and he sieved the entire soil of the flower beds adding quantities of sand to make it just right for those precious roses. Come winter and they showed up in all their glory. Winter was indeed special with the seasonals in full bloom too. Hollyhocks, Sweat Peas, Antirrhinums, Calendulas, Pansies, Chrysanthemums.. the entire range was there.
We had a swing in our garden and we’d spend long hours of lazy winter days lounging about in the sun, the grass warm under us reading and chatting.
At home now, in my flat, the garden seems far away. What’s worse, I suffer from a complete black thumb. Of all the plants I’ve ever tried to plant only ten odd ones have stubbornly refused to die on me.. none of which are flowering plants.
Hence there was great excitement in the house when the Tulsi planter decided to play host to a Periwinkle. The said Periwinkle seemed to have woken up with a start after a year of deep slumber then decided to bloom with a vengeance to make up for lost time.
The kids have been delirious with joy rushing to the plant right after school and dragging their dad to the scene of action as soon as he entered the house. That was followed with a desperate desire to grow their own ‘plants’. I was game for this lesson in agriculture.
Rajmah beans were sourced, two bowls were lined with cotton wool, water poured and the beans made to nestle gently on their royal seats. N also insisted on making a cotton wool ‘blanket’ for her seeds. Of course name tags had to be made.. sharing being an alien concept despite me trying to rub it in from the moment they were born.
N’s are under the ‘blanket’
While I rambled about roots and shoots and air and sunlight they were on their own trip. Here’s how the conversation went…
N : Bhai when do you think the plants will come out?
H: Kal niklenge.
N: What will we do when it becomes a tree? The bowl will break.
H: Mine will be taller.
N: Par aap mere ped ke fruits mat toriyega. We’ll collect lots and lots of fruits.
Edited to add: Better sense prevailed and all the Rajmah seeds were dumped into a single bowl. H called his friends and told them proudly.. “Look we are making our own trees.. we just need lajma, cotton and water”.

A little sister

“I want a little sister,” demanded Naisha today. To say that I was shocked would be an understatement. I mean this line is usually heard from company starved single kids, isn’t it? It’s just not fair that I have to deal with two same age kids plus demands like this one. Like almost all other kids she went on to enumerate all the other children who had smaller siblings.. Shubhi has one (wrong.. she was a cousin), Vineesh has one (wrong again.. cousin again), Zaheen has one (Oh well okay she does), Arna has one (Right again).”

Standard requests have standard replies. I think every mom on the face of this earth has thrown this challenge at every kid who has dared to ask for a sibling. This is what is goes like, “Well she will be very small.. will you clean her when she messes up (refering to the poo/pee possibilities)?” This thought can put off grown ups from having kids what’s a small girl like Naisha? However she had a solution. “We’ll show her the pot and tell her this is where she needs to go,” said she. “But she’ll be too small to walk.. she will mess up,” Silence for a while.. then, “Let’s not a get a baby then.” Naisha gave up and promptly went on to enumerate kids who did not have younger siblings. I heaved a sigh of relief.

I then suggested we would get Zamaan, Zaheen’s little brother, home for sometime and my suggestion was met with a high five from Naisha.

Imagine having another baby and landing up with twins again.. Goosebumps!

A little faith

I’d been telling the kids about God and that He will always be around to help them when they need Him. They seem to have developed quite some dependence on Him.
Tonight it was near bed time. Story time was approaching. I told Naisha to pick a book and went out to finish clearing the dining table. When I came back I saw Naisha sitting near the storybook cupboard, hands folded, eyes closed, muttering quietly. “What are doing Naisha?” I queried. “I tried to open the drawer but I couldn’t.. so I’m asking God for help,” said she quite confident of divine intervention.

I didn’t have the heart to tell her God had bigger things to do than open story book drawers. I told her He sent me to help and she was convinced. Such faith.

Where’s the magic

Naisha had been hankering after a ‘magic wand’ for a long long time. Unfortunately I just couldn’t find one, though I looked pretty hard. (There was a time when I found parents who’d run pillar to post trying to look for things their kids asked them for, quite silly. Now I find myself doing much the same thing. If not actively, at least I keep my eyes open for things they ask me for.. subconsciously sometimes.)

Finally yesterday I found a wand. Predictably enough Naisha was thrilled. She promply wore the matching hair band and pranced about with it. After a while she came back to me and said, “Mama the wand is nice but it just doesn’t have any magic. It’ not a magic wand.” Now where do I find the magic to fill in her wand?

PS: When I asked her to pose for a pic she promptly said, “let me comb my hair and come.” And then she patiently posed for me. Thank You Naisha.