Men on My Mind – Book Review

Men on my Mind

By Radha Thomas
Price: 195/-
 
I love
debut novels. They’re special. They have to be. After all they’ve remained in
the author’s mind long enough and persistently enough to egg her/him to get
down to writing them, right? Of course there have been times when I’ve got stuck
with really bad apples – incorrect English, the hugest turn off, or amateur
writing.. but the risk is worth taking.
 

That was
what made me want to read this one and I’m glad I did.
 

‘Men on my
Mind’ is nothing if not true to its name. The book traces the adventures of an
Indian girl who grows up with… well …. men on her mind since the tender age of 7. From
a dreamy pre-teen inspired by M&Bs struggling with her first crush, she grows
into a self assured woman gamely trying out all kinds of men for size. She makes her way
from Mumbai to Panchagani, Delhi and New York with bits of New Zealand, Fiji
and China thrown in for good measure. On she soldiers, always with a BFF by her
side for where’s the fun if you don’t have a girl friend to share stories of your sexapades
with?
 

She juggles more than one relationship at a time and takes on one night
stands without a scruple. As she says.. ‘What’s the bloody problem anyway?
Conscience-shmonscience.’ There really are plenty of men around and ‘I’ve never been
able to turn down handsome and rich men’, is her candid confession.
 

However, ‘The
One’ remains elusive. The perfect hunk has a squeaky voice, the perfect boyfreind’s
a pathetic kisser, the urbane older man turns out to be a lech, the dapper
gentleman has a pigsty of a home, the sexy biker’s an anger maniac, the soulful
pianist ends up two-timing her,… sigh! Students,
lawyers, violin players, prospective Nobel laureates,
photographers, restaurateurs, bar tenders, she tries them all only to
discover that it really isn’t easy to find the man of her dreams.

The book is
a hilarious take on men and relationships. Here’s a heroine who turns the
male-female stereotype on its head. She treats her encounters with men with the flamboyance and casualness generally attributed to men in their dealings with
women. Oh she wants true love but she’s fine occupying herself while The One comes
along.

The book certainly is a pacey, well written read peppered with hilarious situations and diversely interesting characters.
 

However, my problem with it is that there are just too many men. Towards the
end it gets a bit tiresome and the end itself is a tiny bit of a letdown. I
spotted a few editing errors too. Also, there were some sequences that didn’t
seem to go anywhere (like the plain
Jane episode). Of course since I read there’s a trilogy in the offing, we can
hope it will come together and maybe the end is not ‘The End’.

Other than
that ‘Men on my mind’ delivers all what it promises. It’s gutsy, sexy, provocative
and very very funny. If you’re looking for something light and fun, this is the
book to pick up.

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5 lessons I learnt at the gym

That’s me exercising
Picture courtesy: H

1.Patience patience patience…
…while you wait for your ten minutes at the cycle which is now occupied by a terribly overweight woman who cycles for 40 minutes at level 1 while reading the latest issue of Femina. Patience.

2. Stop being judgemental
‘Overweight’, did you say? Well check out yourself in the mirror first. Besides, that woman at the cycle is 60 years old. That other one who who’s been at the gym for years without losing a gram and who you’ve been sniggering at, has a thyroid problem. So there!

3. Persistence pays
Yes it does, always. Keep at your fitness programme long enough (2 months at least) necessarily coupled with a careful diet and there’s no way you won’t lose weight. And it’s no use not being regular or doing one and skipping the other. It’s no use. That’s something I so need to remember. I’ve had a bit of a depression creeping in since the weighing machine’s been refusing to cooperate of late.

4. Be optimistic
One day I WILL lose weight. That’s what every weight watcher firmly believes. That I’ve kept going back to the gym over the past many many years is proof enough. It’s the optimism that keeps you going.

And most importantly

5. Believe in miracles
Even if I ate like a you-know-what yesterday and even though I haven’t been to the gym in ages I would have lost weight. I believe in that every Monday morning, post every vacation, after each festival break… always… even though I know it’s just not possible, even though it’s never ever happened. But then that’s the thing with miracles they defy logic.. right? So one day it will happen. Meanwhile nos 3 and 4 will have to do.

Happy New Year

A friend had this as her Facebook status.. I thought it was a pretty apt ending as well as a great beginning.

Umeed waali dhoop sunshine waali asha,
rone ki wajah kam hai hasne ke bahaane zyada,
zidd hai muskuraayenge khush rehne ka hai waada..

Here’s the video for all you dear friends and a
Very Very Happy New Year to all of you and your families.

See you in 2013.