How should I teach the kids to ….
… fit in but stand out
… be disciplined but break the rules
… speak their mind but not be rude
… be smart but not be cheeky
… be active but not naughty
… help people in trouble but stay away from trouble
… be generous but watch their interest
… make new friends but not talk to strangers
… grow up fast but retain their innocence
… be independent but never stop needing me